Friday, April 17, 2015

Other Questions?

According to NASA (National Aeronautics and Space Administration) the Universe is 13.77 billion years, with an uncertainty of only 0.4% and our Solar System is 4.5 billion years old.  If the Abrahamic God exists, that deity would have to be older than 13.77 billion years to have created our Universe or at the very least older than 4.5 billion years to have created our Solar System.

So the questions, wouldn't a being of that age, who created stars to use up hydrogen atoms, then helium to start the process of conversion to carbon and oxygen, to then explode that star so that it could use the carbon to create life on our planet, not to mention all the things that make the Earth a place where that life could thrive, have the ability and foresight to make itself known to those it created with the same precision? Another way to ask it would be, wouldn't a being as old as the universe be able to convey itself in literary form without any need for interpretation, or future readers having to accounting for the socioeconomics of the time it was published?  Wouldn't that deity with all its knowledge and precision leave such an important part, the revelation of who it is, to the cognitive abilities of such a young species?

It has always bothered me that the three main religions today (Judaism, Christianity and Islam) all worship the same deity, the God of Abraham, and yet all of them have such stanch interpretations on what the deity wanted for and from them, all based on who they felt was the correct orator. 

As a parent trying to convey maters of importance to my kid I am not vague, and don’t leave them open to interpretation.  For example, we don’t throw fits, we don’t hit other people, we don’t lie, if you continue doing what you are doing you will go to timeout, etc.  My wife and I are in agreement on these things so it doesn't matter which one of us says it, it’s the same.  This seems natural to me, which is why I have issue with this topic.

Why would I want to follow a deity that is so haphazard in conveying its thoughts, wishes, demands, etc. to those it is claiming to love?  Which leads to another question, if God so loved the earth, wouldn't he or she take more care with its children so they don’t interpret its messages differently and judge, hate, condemn and kill each other over them?

Your thoughts?

Tuesday, December 31, 2013

The Last day of 2013

    December 31 2013 is here, and I'm going to admit it wasn't the best year I've ever had.  That's not to say there wasn't great things that happened, on the contrary there were some pretty awesome things that happened.  But, as I sit here, my first reaction to the question of how was 2013 is that it was ok.

    I started this year in moving back from Oklahoma to our home, which didn't sell in 2012.  I started a new job in a new industry for a company that was dismal, who's leadership was spotty and cumbersome.  Now that job lead to a better one, which job usually do, well they do for me anyway.  I am very thankful for it.  i'm still over weight, I still don't like living in Texas, I miss my friends who are my family spread out over this country and in others, I've made some good choices and some awful ones, I saw some cool things, ate some good food, drank some good adult beverages, experienced loss, and hid in my cave of introversion and introspection. BUT, I don't want to start writing something explaining all the things that happened and my reactions, and droll on and on about my ups and downs, I'm simply going to write about what I learned during my 38th year on planet Earth and maybe my hopes for my 39th.

    I learned that loss experienced by others I love, is loss experienced by me.  Family is important to me, but my definition of family has changed over the years.  I am not one to make friends easily or express that sentiment well, but when I call someone a friend, I am calling them family.  I care about their feelings, their passions, their lives, etc.  I have friends that I do not speak to regularly, that when we do talk, or get together it is like no time has passed.  Those are the best and when you hurt I do too, and your joys become mine.

    I learned that honesty has to be the most important thing.  I try hard not to lie, I fail often, but I believe that truth in any situation, tempered with tact, is far better than a white lie to spare feelings.  Tact isn't my strong suit, my wife can testify to that, but we all have our short comings.  I want people to feel at ease with me, to know that I mean what I say and say what I mean.  I am far from honing this skill, but I feel it is worth the effort.  Honesty with myself is the hardest part, lying to ourselves is the easiest thing to do, and the most destructive.  Imagine where we would be in our relationships if we were honest with ourselves first, then honest with everyone else.

    I learned that marriage is hard.  You may be saying "duh" but saying it and knowing it are two different things.  It takes a lot of effort, and an introvert hooking up with an extrovert doesn't offer the most consistent of temperaments.  But we try, and I will always try because the other thing I learned is I married a keeper.  I love her deeply, and respect her far more than I express.

I learned that being a dad is the greatest thing I've ever done.  It is also the scariest, most frustrating, joyous, hard, invigorating, loving, grateful experiences as well.  I look forward to seeing how it all turns out.

I learned that intention is a poor substitute for action.

I learned that being happy is my choice, and mine alone.  If I give that up, it is no one else's fault but mine.

I learned that fiances are hard to keep track of, and even harder to budget.  I really need to improve on this skill.

I learned that writing less, isn't helpful.  This blog is therapeutic for me, and I need to do it more.

My hope for next year is that I grow, as a husband, father, friend as a man.  I want to be better than I was.  I hope to love more, laugh more, get out more, exercise my mind and body more, and hug my wife and kid more.  In all I hope that all of you see a better me next year.

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Marriage Equality

One of the most significant arguments in modern USA culture has to be marriage equality.  Arguments are being heard in the Supreme Court right now.  Hearing both sides of the argument, I know which side I am on, but that doesn't stop me from trying to understand the point of view from those whom I disagree with.  That's what a conversation means to me, where two or more different viewpoints can be looked at, discussed and understanding take place.  I don't think the conversation ever happened.  I think both sides are at fault on that failing, but that isn't what I want to talk about.

I wonder what this country (not to mention the modern world)  would be like if Government would have stayed out of the personal affairs of first century Christians?  I wonder if the history of their persecution is 'why' some, not all, but some tend to do the same today...

If you remember our (human) history, you'll remember it was the Sanhedrin, and other religious lobbyist who advocated the government to be in favor of Christian persecution… I’m sure they thought they were doing what was right, you know, sticking up for their God(s) obeying their doctrines…

Scriptures that come to mind: Luke 6:37, Luke 6:41, John 8:7, Romans 2:1, Roman 14:10, Romans 14:13, 1 Cor 4:5…

When I was a Christian I often had issue with why people got so bent out of shape of what other people were doing.  I guess I still do, this issue is moot in my mind.  Freedom for one group to do something and advocate to have it denied another when both are under the same Government falls under discrimination, which should have no place in our country, especially where love is supposed to the motivation for action for the majority of people who live here.  I wonder what the issue is, really is?

Despite how history played out or will play out, a friend of mine posted something on 'FB' that I feel is worth sharing and sums it up for me.  

This is the Jefferson Memorial, if any were wondering what the Founding Fathers might say today as the Supreme Court considers the "Defense of Marriage Act."